A long time ago when Pam and I met she was into going and doing things. Who could have guessed how much going and doing thing we would do. In our early life it seemed impossible to ever go on an real adventure. We read books and saw movies and they make it look so easy. Remember she was just 15 when we ran away together. I was a lot older at 17. We lied about our age and just got marred. This was in the day of the freedom of not having computers. Mostly after we married we found ourselves just settling in to working and running a steady job. We couldn’t go back to school. The boredom of working every day doing the same thing ever day was harder than doing the work. Dealing with the people you always have to deal with just running a job was always there. The slacker and the back stabbers always trying to make you look bad and them look better. At and early stage in our life we broke from tradition and started working for ourselves only to find why most people never make money in their life but just work for wages for some one that can. Very few people can make money but there is freedom and entrapment in working for yourselves. One you work all the time now. Maybe it just going to look at a job but it’s working. The back stabber and slickers are still there and there is no way around it. They’re always there in life. Why couldn’t we just build a little sailboat and sail away and live a simple life with no worries. Looking back at the last 58 years we have been married we were on a great adventure all the time and didn’t know it. Flying planes and getting a pilot license at a early age is not a great achievement to day but for me having my woman in the plane with me flying into the wild blue yonder was and still is an adventure. Motor bikes riding cross country. Hiking trails and learning to live off the grid then designing a sailboat and going sailing with the boat we built with our own hands. Maybe not much of an accomplishment but to us it was an adventure. With building a sailboat there is no just sailing away. It takes hard work and money but what a dream for us that the boat we designed and built acutely sails. Remember what is adventure for us in all of this may not be for most. Now being in the Caribbean on that boat we built working on boats and sails as we travel to make our way is a dream that came true. Who could ever have thought we would become sail maker in our life time and learn enough to make a living as sail makers and that living would take us to paradise where here in the Caribbean the food is bad, the music worse and it always hot. Where the streets are crowded and if you find something you can use buy it quick for tomorrow it may be gone. Land of warm breezes and coconut palms.
Early morning and late evening rituals of setting on our boat and listening for howler monkeys to start sounding off. Where if you need are want to go somewhere inland in there little mini-vans it can mean riding with some one holding a chicken or you holding someone’s kid with people riding on top or for sure hanging on the side. How many can a clativo carry? At least one more. Parrots and fidget birds flying over head where your always prepared for a rain shower. Flower always in bloom.
Where banana are every where but no one eats banana sandwiches or banana ice cream and for sure banana pudding, where inflatables don’t stay inflated and I work on them.
Any money helps. For those that still believe in Santa Clause or sailing away. Maybe Santa Clause is a far stretch but you can still sail away even if it’s harder to find paradise than you think.



